Why Online Dating Isn't Working For You … And What You Should Do About It

March 27, 2019

 

One of the most difficult questions single women are faced with is, “Where are single men and how do I meet them?” So when online dating emerged it took off because it offered a buffet of men at your fingertips. Which allowed women to meet men they may have never crossed paths with otherwise. But, I’ve seen online dating evolve from people creating extensive profiles that took hours to set up, as they completed lengthy questionnaires to aid compatibility. To today, where people are simply uploading photos with zero information offered about who they are and what they’re looking for. And it’s only getting more and more superficial over time. Yet, you keep participating in online dating because you think you have to. But, you don’t. You can Get The Dirt on How to Flirt and meet quality men in person. As your book is going to teach you how to engage with cuties in the top places you go to in a month so you know how to meet men wherever you go and get them to start chasing you!

 

I say this because you probably find yourself flipping through hundreds of faces without so much as meeting for coffee with a guy. Do you ever wonder what you could have done with all the time you’ve spent flipping through faces? I’ll tell you, you could have met someone in person using You Chose, He Chases, went on some dates using You Plan, He Pays and then had him Begging to Be Your Boyfriend. Exactly like my client Maria did (see testimonial below). In 2018, she had been out with 26 different guys using our Love At First Swipe strategy to meet men online. But, she was exhausted from going on a bunch of bad dates and from going on good dates that literally led to nothing at all (sound familiar?). So she scheduled  a wingwoman outing with another client of mine and when she saw a cutie she flirted first. Because she had The Dirt on How to Flirt. Fast forward to today, and they’re madly in love, he asked her dad for his blessing to propose and took her on a fabulous baecation last week.

 

This happened to her (and many of my other clients) for a few reasons. One of which is because people put the bare minimum effort required to meet someone on a dating app. Therefore, the effort they put into pursuing you is the bare minimum as well. The next reason is because women always worry about what a man will think about you if you flirt first. As many fear a guy will think you’re desperate if you flirt first. However, after interviewing countless men (including my clients husbands, fiances and boyfriends). I’m here to tell you the top three things men think about the women who’ve flirted first CORRECTLY are: They’re flattered. They’re turned on because it’s sexy to meet a woman who knows what she wants and is confident enough to go after it. And they feel lucky... because had she not flirted first they may have never met the amazing woman they’re spending the rest of their lives with.

 

Further, what many don’t know is 80% of the women I’ve coached to marriage, engagement and relationships flirted first with their partner. And look at how how everything turned out :) This is because when you meet men organically you actually feel the attraction, create a connection and leave an impression. Then, he goes home thinking, “Dam, I can’t wait to see her again.” So, if people really aren’t invested in online dating anymore, then you need to stop swiping. And this is going to show you how to stop waiting for an opportunity and how to start creating opportunities. Because while you're doubting, my clients are doing! Get The Dirt on How to Flirt is going to teach you how to make your next move your best move. So you don’t have to be online dating for decades. And if you want to discuss how to move your relationship towards marriage from day one click here to book your one-on-one consultation with me. Happy flirting beautiful 💋

 

 

 

 

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